I've spent so much time cleaning out the basement that I am late with my submission for "Father Tony's Confessional" at Bilerico, but it has been sent, and once it has been approved, you'll be able to see my response to the following letter:
Dear Father Tony:
Every other problem I had with my lover I could solve but this one. We were a good looking couple. We are together for 7 years. After two years I began to put on weight. Not him. He is still gorgeous. Sometimes to add some spice we would have a threeway. He still wants it but I am too ashamed of the way I look so I say no and make up excuses. I feel so bad about this weight that I can’t have sex with even just him anymore. This is all my fault and I am fucking up a good thing. Every night in bed I swear I won’t eat but I do and I am miserable. Now I think he’s cheating on me. This is making me crazy and it is messing up everything.
Boston cream pie.
Here's my response.